Are you sending unintended negative messages like these ?
- "I'm already so busy, please don't make things worse by giving me more to do ..."
- "Your matter is just one of many ... "
- "I'm already such a success that I don't need your help or referrals ..."
- "I'm a bit out of control but will squeeze your work in ..."
Check your behaviour for any hints of the above.
If you are:
- distracted
- disorganised
- disorderly
- disheveled
- delayed
- disaster-zoned
when you see clients, you may be sending silent signals that you're not the right choice !
Check the messages you're sending.
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